Nigerian singer and songwriter, Simisola Kosoko, better known by the stage name as Simi, has advised parents to avoid raising daughters who are overly dependent on others, especially financially. In a recent video posted on her official TikTok account, the music star encouraged parents to raise daughters with a mindset of self-reliance, warning against the notion that women should depend on others for their needs. "Please do not raise your daughters to think that when they grow up, all they have to do is rely on someone… When someone is spoiling you, it shouldn't be because you cannot spoil yourself," Simi said. She emphasized that financial independence allows women to feel secure and confident, adding that women should be able to provide for themselves as well.
The 'Duduke' hitmaker continued by highlighting the security that comes with being independent.
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Reflecting on her own life, Simi acknowledged the privileges she received growing up, including support and encouragement.