PREMIUM Here’s the real cost of valuing love too much People who seem luckier in relationships communicate their needs and preferences more directly. Relationships 38 min ago

Your silence keeps the right people guessing how to love you by withholding clarity while also keeping the wrong people in your life who don’t have the willingness to love you correctly.

So, until you learn to disappoint people, you’ll think you’re in love when you’re just being accommodated because you’re useful.’ When you don’t self-sacrifice, you avoid debts of love and arrears of unreturned sacrifice.